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help & advice please

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  1. shyjaybird
    Member

    Hello everyone. congrats to all that have had such success I have been reading the stories and I am very excited to get my surgery. if all goes well with insurance im looking to have mine (gastric bypass) done at the end of july or beginning of august. going thru the Aetna classes now. I am so ready to begin this new chapter in my life. I have been overweight my entire life its time to get it together!

    So I come to everyone on here for assistance! Is it any advice you can give me to help me be the best prepared for everything. I mean from pre to post op. Everything from diet, vitamins, to exercise. I want & need to be well educated. I have done lots of online research leading up to the point I am at and have attended support groups. and who better to give me helpful advice & tips then those that have started his journey already.
    Is it things I can purchase ahead of time to have and make life easier on me for my road ahead.

    I appreciate & welcome any and all help from everyone.

    thanks so much!

    Jenine

    Posted 1 year ago #
  2. Melissa
    Member

    Jenine! Welcome!!!! Congrats on you decision to do something for yourself!! However, that step is just the start of your long journey you will be taking. This journey can be the most rewarding journey ever!! It will have it lows and its highs. If you are positive about itand strive to learn from your every move, even those lows can be more rewarding then those highs!!

    Pre-Op:
    Educate yourself the best you can about your surgery. Network with people who have had this surgery. Attend support groups. Eveluate why you are having this surgery. What got you to this point. Was it a metabolic reason? Excessive eaiting? Emotional Eating? I would highly recomend starting therapy sessions, especially if you are an emotional eater. Many people find a shock to them after surgery that they are emotional eaters and their outlet for dealing with emotions is challenging and can lead to depression. Be aware of transfer addictions. Going from food to something else. You are having surgery on your stomach, not your brain. You HAVE to reducate yourself and set yourself up for a healthy lifestyle. This will help you learn to live a normal life.

    Post Op-
    Follow Brittany's food plan to a T. It is designed to assist you as a post op. Measure you food. As a new post op you have just went under major surgery on your stomach. You neves will be severed and in shock. You will not be able to tell when you are full, as you will not have feeling. That will come around 6 months post op. That is why it is so important to measure your food. Eat off of smaller plates and take your time to eat.

    Many new post ops can go through buyers remorse. You have had major surgery and you will be losing massive amounts of weight. Our fat cells store estrogen, when those fat cells are depleted, we get a surge of estrogen into our systems and our mood can be effected. It is normal.

    You have to understand this surgery is essentially forced starvation. That is why it is imparative to get a well balanced meal. Some things I struggled with as a new post op was calories intake. I was terrified to have calories in. As a new post op it is not important you calorie intake. If you are following Brittanys food plan, you will be getting in what you need to calorie wise as a new post op. At about 6 months post op your calorie intake will need to increase. What is right for you will not be right for me. This is where it gets tough, trying to find the right balance for you. I personally do not count calories. But this is me. I know I will be obssesive with my caloric intake. But I do know what I need and I prepare myself well balanced meals. I do plan my foods for the day. I eat usually 4-5 meals a day. Another problem I had was the fear of carbs. You MUST have complex carbs in order to LIVE and Function. If you have not read the What Kinds of foods are you eating post on the importance of complex carbs and what food you can find them in.

    You HAVE to get your vitamins in. Compliance to this is imparative to your life and your health. Follow it to a T. It is not a luxury but a nessisaty.

    You HAVE to get in your protien shakes. We do not consume enough protien in our foods to function. The best type of protien for us is Whey Isolate and next Whey Concentrate. Follow Brittany's instructions for protien intake by shakes. You will need to try sveral different types of protien before you find the right one for you. you taste buds will change after surgery. I ordered the protien sample from Bariatric Eating and tried the different ones they have. Unjury even has a unflavored one.

    THis is all I can think of right now. If you have ANY questions please ask. I know some of the stuff I wrote may seem scary, but I just want people to be aware. Some of this stuff you are not previe to pre-op and then shocked post op. As I said, there are the highs and lows of this surgery. For me, I have enjoyed my journey and I have learned so much about myself and I have built a healthy relationship with food. It is the best thing I have ever done.

    Melissa
    RNY 6-17-08
    414/375/215/200
    Highest/DOS/Current/1st goal

    Posted 1 year ago #
  3. shyjaybird
    Member

    Melissa... thank you so much for responding and giving me all this helpfull advice.. i appreciate it so very much...

    Posted 1 year ago #
  4. Jenine,

    Hi welcome to the group. I am not a surgery patient, HOWEVER, I have LOST 340lbs. My highest weight was 490. Through exercise and lifestyle change and proper nutrition, to date I have lost the 340lbs. I support all of you that have made this decision to undergo surgery and it is very smart that you are educating your self with as much knowledge as possible! Since I lost my weight, I have started my own personal training, nutrition and motivational speaking company, located in Woodbridge. I have a team of trainers that work with me in my mission to help people overcome their addictions, whether pre or post op, or neither! In-home, in-office bootcamps that we can form with members of the support groups etc. Exercise on this journey after and before surgery is just as important,if not more so...than the surgery itself. As Dr. Halmy states, the surgery is just a small portion, the rest has to be a lifestyle change. If you are intersted in more information, let me know. I look forward to hearing of your success!!

    Amy Barnes
    703-763-9326

    Posted 1 year ago #
  5. Kim D.
    Member

    Melissa! Excellent advice! I had my surgery in December and agree wholeheartedly with everything that you have said. I currently struggle with my body image. I am down to my goal weight, but when I look in the mirror.....I still see someone who is 100 pounds overweight. How can I start seeing the "new" me?

    Posted 1 year ago #
  6. Melissa
    Member

    Thanks Kim!!! Congrats on making goal!!! That is fabulous!!!

    Body image is so hard. I may be completly off base here, but sometime I feel we do not deserve to look and feel good about ourselves. We havespent so many years as being overweight and as most people, we had this surgery to make our lives healthier and that is our primary reason for this surgery. But to deny the self esteem part to it, we would be lying to ourselves. However, there is a population who do embrace and love themselves for who they are no matter the weight. But there is this stigma in society were people are looked down on for being overwieght and looked at as less attractive. If this is how one has veiwed there weigh, aside from the health issues, learning to love oneself is probably the most difficult step to overcome.

    For me personally I thought I loved myself for me. And I did. But I also have recognized the I was not at 100% at that self love. Take a pre op picture and tape it to the mirror that you look at yourself in all the time. Look at that beautiful person in that picture first when you go to the mirror then look at you. What you have revealed since December. Go our and buy yourself a beautiful outfit that flatters your body. Stop punishing yourself for who you were before. You were still a beautiful woman then as you are now. You have just taking a step to make yourself healthy. That step right there shows how much you do LOVE yourself.

    Melissa
    RNY 6-17-08
    414/375/210/200
    Highest/DOS/Current/1st goal

    Posted 1 year ago #
  7. Kim D.
    Member

    Thanks Melissa. I will try to work on this over the next month. Maybe taking pictures will put it in perspective.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  8. Jodi
    Member

    Hello shyjbird,
    I'm about at the same place you are. I'm waiting to get my insurance approval.I'm hopeing for surgery in August. It keeps getting longer and longer out and my nerves are really getting me .How are things going for you? Are you doing the bypas or the band? may be we can keep in touch through this? Good luck
    Jodi

    Posted 2 months ago #

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